Boundaries That Get You Off: How to Pleasure-Focus Your Communication in BDSM Negotiations

Setting boundaries and negotiating limits is crucial when exploring kink and BDSM, but the process doesn’t have to be dull or overwhelming! In fact, communication and boundary-setting can be an exciting and arousing part of the experience: building anticipation, intimacy, and erotic tension. It’s scene foreplay!

Join sexologist and intimacy educator Lilithfoxx as she discusses pleasure-focused and practical tips for effective, inclusive, trauma-informed, and mindful communication in BDSM. We’ll cover adapting communication and negotiation styles to suit different partners, neurodivergencies, dynamics, and play scenarios while respecting power and authority dynamics. Whether you’re a seasoned player or new to kink, this class will help you transform communication into an exhilarating and empowering component of your BDSM experiences.