Lilithfoxx
Lilith
foxx
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Marketer. Content Creator. Community Organizer.

Marketer.

Content Creator.

Community Organizer.

Impudent, shameless, morally unrestrained, BIPOC, neurodivergent, queer, kinky, polyamorous, sadomasochistic, switch, writer, marketer, and orgasm-obsessed Raven-Haired Jezebel.

Lilithfoxx (she/her) has been in the BDSM lifestyle for the better part of a decade, and an active member of the Houston, TX kink community. She’s a polyamorous, sado-masochistic switch who goes from bratty babygirl to a sadistic pro-Domme with a penchant for degradation, mind-fucks, and (just about) all things bloody, painful, and fucked up. She identifies as “Leather-ish” – serving both the Leather and BDSM communities. Outside of kink, she’s an extroverted foodie, chef, and mango White Claw enthusiast.

Education and service to community are amongst her core tenants. She volunteers her time and experience as a marketing and business consultant to adult-oriented businesses under her brand Lilith Consulting. She is currently working on her Sexuality Educator certification through the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors, and Therapists (AASECT), and her Sexual Educator certification through the Sexual Health Alliance.

She served as The School of Austin Advanced D/s Education’s (SAADE) first Marketing Counsel, promoting its growth, inclusivity, and reach to a more global and diverse audience. She currently serves as Marketing Manager under the rebrand, The School of Advanced Dynamic Education (SADE), and is working towards equity and accessibility in education alongside the SADE Leadership team.

In 2020, she had the honor of being recognized internationally at Anomaly’s Frost Gala for her service to the international kink community in teaching BIPOC inclusivity in kink spaces.

2022 – Present: Marketing Manager for SADE

2020 – 2022: Marketing Counsel for SAADE

2020: Team Dungeon Volunteer

2012 – Present: Member of HPEP

2012 – Present: Member of HEAT

2021: Power Exchange Dynamics Panelist, MAsT Houston

2020: Social Media Marketing for Kinky Businesses & Brands, Arkansas Anomaly – Cirque Du Earth Convention

2020: BIPOC Panel pt.2: Creating inclusivity in Kink Spaces, Team Dungeon

2020: “Et tu, Stiletto?” How to Walk in High Heels, Team Dungeon

2020: Prominent Blood Players of Houston Panelist, Dark Necessities

Impudent, shameless, morally unrestrained, BIPOC, neurodivergent, queer, kinky, polyamorous, sadomasochistic, switch, writer, marketer, and orgasm-obsessed Raven-Haired Jezebel.

A closeup image of Lilithfoxx's avatar image. She has long dark hair, and is smiling and winking.

Lilithfoxx (she/her) has been in the BDSM lifestyle for the better part of a decade, and an active member of the Houston, TX kink community. She’s a polyamorous, sadomasochistic switch who goes from bratty babygirl to a sadistic pro-Domme with a penchant for degradation, mind-fucks, and (just about) all things bloody, painful, and fucked up. She identifies as “Leather-ish” – serving both the Leather and BDSM communities. Outside of kink, she’s an extroverted foodie, chef, and mango White Claw enthusiast.

Education and service to community are amongst her core tenants. She volunteers her time and experience as a marketing and business consultant to adult-oriented businesses under her brand Lilith Consulting. She is currently working on her Sexuality Educator certification through the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors, and Therapists (AASECT), and collaborating on research initiatives with The Society for the Scientific Study of Sexuality (SSSS).

She served as The School of Austin Advanced D/s Education’s (SAADE) first Marketing Counsel, promoting its growth, inclusivity, and reach to a more global and diverse audience. She currently serves as Marketing Manager under the rebrand, The School of Advanced Dynamic Education (SADE), and is working towards equity and accessibility in education alongside the SADE Leadership team.

In 2020 (and again in 2022!), she has had the honor of international recognition at Anomaly’s Frost Gala for her service to the international kink community in teaching BIPOC inclusivity in kink spaces.

Leadership & Service

2022 – Present: Marketing Manager for SADE

2020 – 2022: Marketing Counsel for SAADE

2020: Team Dungeon Volunteer

2012 – Present: Member of HPEP

2012 – Present: Member of HEAT

 

Classes Taught

2021: Power Exchange Dynamics Panelist, MAsT Houston

2020: Social Media Marketing for Kinky Businesses & Brands, Arkansas Anomaly – Cirque Du Earth Convention

2020: BIPOC Panel pt.2: Creating inclusivity in Kink Spaces, Team Dungeon

2020: “Et tu, Stiletto?” How to Walk in High Heels, Team Dungeon

2020: Prominent Blood Players of Houston Panelist, Dark Necessities

Class Catalog

Banned…again?! But that was my elbow, not my dick!

Marketing spicy content takes a specialized approach, as kinky brands face discrimination, content and account deletion, shadow-banning, and lost income – without just cause or recourse. Lilithfoxx will draw on her years of experience in senior-level marketing for Fortune 500 companies to help you build a low-risk, high-reward social media strategy. She’ll cover hashtags, social platforms, helpful tools, and more! This class is suitable for businesses and content creators of all types.

This class is taught alongside NordStar, an internationally licensed professional mental health practitioner with over a decade of experience in organizational psychology. 

Lilithfoxx and NordStar first presented this class as a NBPOC panel in 2020, and have restructured the class to be taught by Nord and Lilith collaboratively.

Since then, several dungeons around the world have utilized what they learned in the class to create safer and more inclusive spaces for BIPOC folx in their communities. Lilith and Nord share a passion for service and education to the community. They have dedicated their time, personal, and professional experiences to promoting inclusivity for BIPOC folx in the global kink community. 

This class will teach actionable steps to create safer spaces for BIPOC. Personal experiences may be shared, however the primary goal is teaching attendees what specifically they can do NOW in their communities to create positive change. 

When it comes to kink negotiations, neurodiversity yields some unique challenges. How do you effectively communicate play when you or your partner constantly lose your train of thought? This class will discuss ways to negotiate play and PE/AT dynamics with neurodiversity in mind! Lilith draws on her personal experience as a queer POC cis-woman with ADHD and trauma to teach you tips and tricks for negotiating play and communicating limits in ways that work with ND, not against it. We’ll cover written negotiations, non-verbal communication before and during play, and how to support ND play partners during scenes. This class is suitable for anyone – regardless of whether they are neurodivergent or have a partner who is.

No matter your level of experience with non-monogamy, The Relationship Escalator is bound to sneak up on you a time or two! But what if that’s not a bad thing? Lilithfoxx has been a non-hierarchal, relationship anarchist, switchy polyam for the better part of a decade. She’ll teach you how to avoid the fuckups, and reframe “The Escalator” as a way to strengthen and build your non-monogamous relationships to stand the test of time. This class is suitable for anyone, regardless of relationship orientation. Attendees will learn healthy ways to communicate needs and build relationships that are applicable to all styles of love and relationships.

Has work or life distanced you from your partner? It can be difficult to figure out how to strengthen and maintain a PE/AT dynamic when you’re separated by schedules, zip codes, or time zones. How often do you see each other? How do you play long distance? Will things ever be the same? Do you call it quits?

This class takes a realistic approach to making long-distance dynamics work (or not) – emphasizing ways to restructure and reframe your dynamic with the intentionality for mutual fulfillment. Topics of discussion include:

  • Developing long-term relationship longevity strategies.
  • Setting realistic time frames for visits and mitigating the drop after you leave.
  • Ways to play long distance that are equally sexy and satisfying.
  • Coping with “FOMO” of new play partners and events that you or your partner can’t attend together.
  • Creating realistic and kind exit-strategies for if the relationship isn’t working. 

This class suitable for everyone – regardless of whether they’re in a long-distance PE/AT dynamic – as it will cover more nuanced and dynamic ways of communicating and negotiating with your partners.

This class is part 1 of a 2 part series on long distance PE/AT dynamics. Each class will holistically discuss all of the topics, but will go into more specifics depending on the part. 

Has work or life distanced you from your partner? It can be difficult to figure out how to strengthen and maintain a PE/AT dynamic when you’re separated by schedules, zip codes, or time zones. Do you remove protocols, change them, or add new ones? How do you do any of that without compromising the foundation your relationship was built on?

This class takes a realistic approach to making long-distance dynamics work (or not) – emphasizing ways to restructure and reframe your dynamic with the intentionality for mutual fulfillment. Topics of discussion include:

  • Adapting existing protocols and creating new ones.
  • Navigating being part of different communities – together and separately.
  • Creating new strategies for differing levels of protocol for long distance and when you’re alone in a new community.
  • Ways to play and adhere to rituals and protocols long distance that are equally sexy and satisfying.

This class suitable for everyone – regardless of whether they’re in a long-distance PE/AT dynamic – as it will cover more nuanced and dynamic ways of communicating and negotiating with your partners.

This class is part 2 of a 2 part series on long distance PE/AT dynamics. Each class will holistically discuss all of the topics, but will go into more specifics depending on the part. 

This class is a dynamic and open discussion of how to blend any combination of PE/AT dynamics, long distance, and polyamory. Attendees will have the opportunity to ask questions and learn strategies for healthy communication in relationships of all configurations. 

This class is customized to the experience of the room. An informal class poll for questions and topics sets the direction and tone of the class. As such, no two classes will be the same. This leads to a very adaptive and engaging class. If a more structured class is preferred, please look into any of the above classes.

Conversations about intimacy, boundaries, and desires often happen in the moment, and in the context of play and sexuality with partner(s). But is that what you actually want, or what you think you want in the moment? Are you and your partner(s) on the same page?

In this class, you’ll learn to complete an intimacy inventory that will help you have this conversation first and foremost with yourself. This trauma-informed approach to determining your needs and wants is applicable to intimacy, sexuality, kink, gender, relationships, and more! We’ll also discuss methods of incorporating this work into personal growth and development.

This class is suitable for everyone, and is especially helpful for survivors of trauma, assault, and abuse.

References available upon request.

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