Leadership & Service
- Communications Committee Member
American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors, & Therapists (AASECT)
2023 – PRESENT
- Communications Committee Member
Texas Association of Marriage & Family Therapy (TAMFT)
2023 – PRESENT
- Social Justice Taskforce Member
Texas Association of Marriage & Family Therapy (TAMFT)
2023 – PRESENT
- Marketing Manager
The School of Advanced Dynamic Education (SADE)
2021 – 2023
- Marketing Counsel
School of Austin Advanced D/s Education (SAADE)
2020 – 2021
Education
- Human Sexuality Intensive Graduate
Kinsey Institute at Indiana University, 2023 – PRESENT
- Certified Sexologist
American Board of Sexology, 2023
- Psychological First Aid certification
Johns Hopkins University, 2022
- Bachelor of Arts, English, Cum Laude
University of Houston, Downtown, 2015
- Associate of Arts
Lone Star College, 2012
Work Experience
- Board-Certified Sexologist, Coach & Consultant
Lilithfoxx
2012 – PRESENT
Sexuality education, consulting and coaching.
- B2B Marketing Manager
Penn-Foster Carrus
Mar 2022 – Oct 2022
Content marketing strategy, SEO, and tradeshow marketing for B2B SaaS EdTech.
- Marketing & Business Consultant
LFK Consulting
Mar 2020 – Mar 2022
Marketing & branding strategies for small businesses.
- WordPress Web Developer & Marketing Strategist
The Gorilla Agency
May 2021 – Oct 2021
Marketing analytics, automation, SEO & website development.
- Account Coordinator
You Squared Media
Oct 2020 – May 2021
Marketing and social media account management at the agency level.
- Marketing Director
Sidecar Admissions
May 2018 – Mar 2020
Marketing and branding strategy for a grad school test prep startup.
- Marketing Manager
Reddy & Neumann, P.C.
Jan 2017 – Apr 2018
Multi-channel marketing and case management for a law firm.
Grants, Awards, & Honors
- 10/2023 - Human Sexuality Intensive
Scholarship Recipient
Kinsey Institute at Indiana University
- 08/2023 - Sexceptional Business Summit
Full Scholarship Recipient
Sexual Health Alliance
- 05/2023 - AASECT Annual Conference
Creating Community Scholarship Recipient
American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors, & Therapists
- 02/2023 - Kink Sexceptional Summit
Full Scholarship Recipient
Sexual Health Alliance
- 12/2022 - National SexEd Conference
Scholarship Recipient
Center for Sex Education
- 10/2022 - Queer Identities Sexceptional Summit
Full Scholarship Recipient
Sexual Health Alliance
- 10/2022 - AASECT Virtual Institute
Scholarship Recipient
Center for Sex Education
- 2020 - 2022 - Service Recognition Award
Awarded in 2020 & 2022
Arkansas Anomaly
- 2015 - Sigma Tau Delta
English Honor Society
University of Houston, Downtown
Professional Memberships
- AASECT
- TAMFT
- NCSF
Presentations
- Arabghani, Fariba. “Marketing Mindfully: How to Promote Your Sex-Positive Brand without Social Media” (Presentation, SexEd Lecture Series, Synchronus Online, September 27, 2023).
- Lilithfoxx. “Getting Freaky in the Spreadsheets: Negotiating with Neurodiversity” (Presentation, Wicked Grounds, Synchronous Online, August 30, 2023).
- Arabghani, Fariba. “Blunt Talk: Boundaries and Consent While Using Cannabis” (Presentation, SexEd Lecture Series, Synchronus Online, August 23, 2023).
- Lilithfoxx. “Boundaries That Get You Off: How to Pleasure-Focus Your Communication in BDSM Negotiations” (Presentation, SheBop, Synchronous Online, June 15th, 2023).
- Arabghani, Fariba. & Boatman, Beth. “BDSM, Polyamory, Alt Sex, Oh My!” (Presentation, TAMFT 2023 Conference: The Challenge of Change: Advancing Systemic Practice, Austin, TX. March 4th 2023).
- Lilithfoxx. “Power Exchange Dynamics Panel” (Panel, MAsT Houston, March 14th 2021).
- Lilithfoxx. “Social Media Marketing for Kinky Businesses & Brands” (Presentation, Arkansas Anomaly: Cirque Du Earth Conference, June 6th 2021).
- Lilithfoxx. “Et Tu, Stiletto? How to Walk in High Heels” (Presentation, Team Dungeon, September 10th 2020).
- Lilithfoxx & Nordstar “BIPOC Experiences pt. 2 panel” (Panel, Team Dungeon, August 15th 2020).
Facilitated Trainings
- Farrah Bonnot & Malcolm, “Attachment Theory in Power Dynamics” (Presentation, SADE, synchronous online, marketing management, content creation of supplemental resources and class procedure, May 16th 2023).
- Phoenix & lucky, “When Sorry Isn’t Good Enough; Coming Back From the Brink” (Presentation, SADE, synchronous online, marketing management, content creation of supplemental resources and class procedure, April 19th 2023).
- Danarama, “Protocols with a Point” (Presentation, SADE, synchronous online, marketing management, content creation of supplemental resources and class procedure, February 21th 2023).
- Thista Minai, “Stumbling Into Spooky: Exploring Sacredness & Spirituality in Dynamics” (Presentation, SADE, synchronous online, marketing management, content creation of supplemental resources and class procedure, January 17th 2023).
- Niho_Mano & Nkay, “The Best of Both Worlds: Balancing Power Exchange Authority Transfer Dynamics with Families and Children” (Presentation, SADE, synchronous online, marketing management, content creation of supplemental resources and class procedure, November 15th 2022).
- HannahTheScribe, “Productivity For Service” (Presentation, SADE, synchronous online,marketing management, content creation of supplemental resources and class procedure, October 18th 2022).
- Farrah Bonnot, “Codependency in Power Exchange Authority Transfer Dynamics” (Presentation, SADE, synchronous online, marketing management, content creation of supplemental resources and class procedure, September 20th 2022).
- Kim Lee, “Long Distance Kink & Play” (Presentation, SADE, synchronous online, marketing management, content creation of supplemental resources and class procedure, August 16th 2022).
- Miss Mackenzee, “Supporting a Stressed Out Partner” (Presentation, SADE, synchronous online, marketing management, content creation of supplemental resources and class procedure, July 19th 2022).
- Beast & echo, “Building a Values-Based Dynamic” (Presentation, SADE, synchronous online, marketing management, content creation of supplemental resources and class procedure, June 21st 2022).
- Lee Harrington, “Service That Serves Us” (Presentation, SADE, synchronous online, marketing management, content creation of supplemental resources and class procedure, May 17th 2022).
- IPCookieMonster, “FemDom 2.0: Now With Less Sexism!” (Presentation, SADE, synchronous online, marketing management, content creation of supplemental resources and class procedure, April 19th 2022).
- Invictuz & BebeBlueEyes, “Polyamory & Power Exchange” (Presentation, SADE, synchronous online, marketing management, content creation of supplemental resources and class procedure, March 15th 2022).
- Danarama, “How to Talk Like a Top” (Presentation, SADE, synchronous online, marketing management, content creation of supplemental resources and class procedure, February 15th 2022).
- Danarama, “Authentic Interrogation for BDSM” (Presentation, SAADE, synchronous online, marketing management, content creation of supplemental resources and class procedure, November 12th 2021).
- Underground Sea, “The Object of Your Desire: An Exploration of Objectification in BDSM” (Presentation, SAADE, synchronous online, marketing management, content creation of supplemental resources and class procedure, August 13th 2021).
- Lancaster, Tess, et al, “Gender ‘In’ Style: A Gender Expression Panel” (Panel, SAADE, synchronous online, marketing management, content creation of supplemental resources and class procedure, June 11th 2021).
- Ruby Ryder, “Pegging Equipment 101” (Presentation, SAADE, synchronous online, marketing management, content creation of supplemental resources and class procedure, May 14th 2021).
- Jack Thompson, Mx Eli, et al, “Living Legends: A Titleholders Panel” (Panel, SAADE, synchronous online, marketing management, content creation of supplemental resources and class procedure, April 9th 2021).
- Brett, “Laboratory of Littles: An Exploration in Ageplay” (Presentation, SAADE, synchronous online, marketing management, content creation of supplemental resources and class procedure, March 12th 2021).
- Shannon BoBannon, “Your Kinky Dating Survival Guide: Pandemic Edition” (Presentation, SAADE, synchronous online, marketing management, content creation of supplemental resources and class procedure, February 12th 2022).
In the Press
- Mashable, Ashley, B (2023, July). What Is A Ruined Orgasm?. Retrieved from https://mashable.com/article/ruined-orgasm-explained
- Mashable, Ashley, B (2023, July). A Guide to Edging During Sex. Retrieved from https://mashable.com/article/edging-during-sex-guide
- Giddy, Conti, G (2023, July). The Third Love: How Many Times Do We Truly Fall in Love?. Retrieved from https://getmegiddy.com/truly-fall-in-love
- The Spill, Virdi, A (2023, July). Between fetishisation and microaggressions, the dating game is even harder for women of colour. Retrieved from https://www.thespillmag.com/articles/as-a-brown-woman-in-the-uk%2C-i-have-felt-othered-throughout-my-whole-dating-life
- Giddy, Sweeten, A (2023, June). Can Social Media Be the Cause of My Sexual Dysfunction?. Retrieved from https://getmegiddy.com/social-media-cause-sexual-dysfunction
- Giddy, Kibugi, T (2023, June). Pillow Talking: Why Do I Overshare After Sex?. Retrieved from https://getmegiddy.com/oversharing-after-sex
- Daily Mail, Halff, N (2023, June). Men’s Health magazine is mocked for pushing term ‘gynosexual’ to describe people who are attracted to women. Retrieved from https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-12220193/Mens-Health-magazine-mocked-pushing-term-gynosexual.html
- Fox News, Penley, T (2023, June). Men’s Health mag mocked for article pushing inclusive term ‘gynosexual’ to describe people attracted to women. Retrieved from https://www.foxnews.com/media/mens-health-mocked-gender-inclusive-gynosexual-describe-people-attracted-women
- Cosmopolitan, Hamilton, J (2023, June). 11 Submissive Sex Positions to Try With a Trusted Partner. Retrieved from https://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/positions/g25919360/submissive-bdsm-sex-positions/
- Cosmopolitan, Sullivan M (2023, June). Here’s How to Stop Overthinking Your Relationship. Retrieved from https://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/a44178497/how-to-stop-overthinking-your-relationship/
- Dame, Weiss S (2023, June). How to Have Sex With a Woman: A Guide to Vulva Owner-Vulva Owner Action. Retrieved from https://dame.com/blogs/sexual-wellness/how-to-have-sex-with-a-woman-a-guide-to-vulva-owner-vulva-owner-action
- Glamour, Weiss, S (2023, June). What Causes Vaginal Dryness? Here’s 17 Possible Reasons for Vaginal Dryness. Retrieved from https://www.glamour.com/story/cant-get-wet-possible-reasons-for-vaginal-dryness
- Kinkly, Britt, T (2023, June). Your Ultimate Guide to Anal Masturabation. Retrieved from https://www.kinkly.com/your-ultimate-guide-to-anal-masturbation/2/19977
- Floozy, Muogilim, M (2023, May). Don’t Let Bad Knees Hamper Your Sex Life. Retrieved from https://floozy.jusmedia.shef.ac.uk/2023/05/31/dont-let-bad-knees-hamper-your-sex-life/
- Yahoo! Life, Weiss, S (2023, May). Attracted to Women? You Might Be Gynosexual. Retrieved from https://www.yahoo.com/lifestyle/attracted-women-might-gynosexual-134600342.html
- Men’s Health, Weiss, S (2023, May). Are You Gynosexual? Here’s What It Means, According to Experts. Retrieved from https://www.menshealth.com/sex-women/a43906385/gynosexual-meaning/
- Men’s Health, Weiss, S (2023, May). Are You Androsexual? Here’s What It Means, According to Experts. Retrieved from https://www.menshealth.com/sex-women/a43895918/androsexual-meaning/
- Moments with Jenny, Dagi, J (2023, May). 10 Subtle Signs of Disrespect in a Relationship. Retrieved from https://www.momentswithjenny.com/signs-of-disrespect-in-a-relationship
- Let’s Talk with Kizzi Podcast, Nkwocha, K (2023, May). Let’s Talk Relationships with Lilithfoxx. Retrieved from https://open.spotify.com/episode/05FGRZLWNHuA25DDtn4jxY?si=3nv-TmJwQKeYDNkoXtacDg
- Mind Body Green, Nguyen, J (2023, Apr). 18 Sex Toys For Women Actually Worth Trying, Recommended By Experts. Retrieved from https://www.mindbodygreen.com/articles/best-sex-toys-for-women
- Cosmopolitan, Pugachevsky, J and Hamilton, J (2023, Apr). Everything You Need to Know About the Classic Eiffel Tower Sex Position. Retrieved from https://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/positions/a27469001/eiffel-tower-sex-position/
- Ask Men, Strong, R (2023, Apr). Can Casual Sex Turn Into a Serious Relationship?. Retrieved from https://www.askmen.com/dating/dating-advice/can-casual-sex-turn-into-a-serious-relationship.html
- Moments with Jenny, Dagi, J (2023, Apr). 10 Important Things to Know About Your Partner in a Relationship. Retrieved from https://www.momentswithjenny.com/things-to-know-about-your-partner
- Men’s Health, Weiss, S (2023, Apr). What Is a Cum Fetish? Experts Explain What It Is—and How to Try It Safely. Retrieved from https://www.menshealth.com/sex-women/a43644455/cum-fetish/
- Ask Men, Strong, R (2023, Apr). 6 Reasons Why Women Have Higher Standards in Dating. Retrieved from https://www.askmen.com/dating/vanessa_60/94_love_secrets.html
- Lorals, Britt, T (2023, Apr). Lingerie Kinks and Fetishes: A Quick Primer. Retrieved from https://mylorals.com/blogs/lorotica/lingerie-fetishes-and-kinks-lorals
- Cosmopolitan, Conti, G (2023, Apr). Women Statistically Swipe Left More on Guys with Pet Cats. Retrieved from https://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/a43594245/guys-with-cats-less-dateable/
- Toronto Sun, Paget, S (2023, Apr). Performance improvement plans may save relationships. Retrieved from https://torontosun.com/life/sex-files/paget-performance-improvement-plans-may-save-relationships
- Best Colleges, Embry, M (2022, June). Women in Leadership: Advice for My Younger Self. Best Colleges. Retrieved from https://www.bestcolleges.com/careers/women-in-leadership-advice-for-my-younger-self/
- Consumer Reports, Chang-Cook, A (2022, August). Why People of Color Are Less Likely to Have a Will. Consumer Reports. Retrieved from https://www.consumerreports.org/money/estate-planning/why-people-of-color-are-less-likely-to-have-a-will-a6742820557/
Publications
- Lilithfoxx (2023, Jun). Essential Items for Your BDSM Aftercare Kit: A Checklist for Play Partners. LilithFoxx.com Blog. https://lilithfoxx.com/bdsm-aftercare-kit-checklist
- Lilithfoxx (2023, Jun). Beyond the Physical: How to Emotionally Debrief After a BDSM Scene. LilithFoxx.com Blog. https://lilithfoxx.com/bdsm-communication
- SADE (2023, May). Self-Care for Doms: A Guide to Nurturing Yourself and Your BDSM Relationships. SADEclasses.org Blog. https://sadeclasses.org/aftercare-self-care-tips-for-dominants
- SADE (2023, May). Attachment Theory in Dynamics BDSM Journaling Prompts. SADEclasses.org Blog. https://sadeclasses.org/bdsm-kink-journaling-topics/#attachment
- SADE (2023, Apr). Getting Started with BDSM: Why Workshops Are a Great First Step. SADEclasses.org Blog. https://sadeclasses.org/taking-bdsm-workshops
- SADE (2023, Apr). The Ultimate BDSM Classes Guide. SADEclasses.org Blog. https://sadeclasses.org/ultimate-bdsm-classes-guide
- SADE (2023, Apr). When Sorry Isn’t Enough BDSM Journaling Prompts. SADEclasses.org Blog. https://sadeclasses.org/bdsm-kink-journaling-topics/#sorryisntenough
- SADE (2023, Mar). Here’s Why You Should Be Keeping a Kink & BDSM Journal. SADEclasses.org Blog. https://sadeclasses.org/kink-and-bdsm-journaling-benefits
- SADE (2023, Feb). Protocols With a Point BDSM Journaling Prompts. SADEclasses.org Blog. https://sadeclasses.org/bdsm-kink-journaling-topics/#protocolspoint
- SADE (2023, Feb). How to Save Money on a BDSM Toy Collection. SADEclasses.org Blog. https://sadeclasses.org/save-money-on-bdsm-toys
- SADE (2023, Jan). Taking BDSM Classes: How to Prepare and Get Started. SADEclasses.org Blog. https://sadeclasses.org/taking-bdsm-classes-how-to
- SADE (2023, Jan). Stumbling Into Spooky BDSM Journaling Prompts. SADEclasses.org Blog. https://sadeclasses.org/bdsm-kink-journaling-topics/#stumblingintospooky
- SADE (2022, Dec). Kink & BDSM Christmas and Holiday Gift Ideas. SADEclasses.org Blog. https://sadeclasses.org/kinky-bdsm-christmas-holiday-gift-idea
- SADE (2022, Nov). Parenting and Power Exchange BDSM Journaling Prompts. SADEclasses.org Blog. https://sadeclasses.org/bdsm-kink-journaling-topics/#parentingpe
- SADE (2022, Oct). A Complete Guide to Creating A Discreet BDSM Dungeon At Home. SADEclasses.org Blog. https://sadeclasses.org/creating-a-discreet-bdsm-dungeon-in-your-home
- SADE (2022, Oct). Productivity for Service BDSM Journaling Prompts. SADEclasses.org Blog. https://sadeclasses.org/bdsm-kink-journaling-topics/#productivity
- SADE (2022, Sept). Codependency in Dynamics BDSM Journaling Prompts. SADEclasses.org Blog. https://sadeclasses.org/bdsm-kink-journaling-topics/#codependency
- SADE (2022, Sept). 5 Common Misconceptions About BDSM. SADEclasses.org Blog. https://sadeclasses.org/common-misconceptions-about-bdsm
- SADE (2022, Aug). 5 Answers to the Most Frequently Asked Questions About BDSM. SADEclasses.org Blog. https://sadeclasses.org/most-frequently-asked-bdsm-questions
- SADE (2022, Aug). How to Tell Your Partner That You Like BDSM. SADEclasses.org Blog. https://sadeclasses.org/how-to-tell-your-partner-you-like-bdsm
- SADE (2022, Aug). 10 Insightful Quotes About Dominance in BDSM. SADEclasses.org Blog. https://sadeclasses.org/quotes-about-dominance-bdsm
- SADE (2022, Aug). Long Distance Kink & Play BDSM Journaling Prompts. SADEclasses.org Blog. https://sadeclasses.org/bdsm-kink-journaling-topics/#ldr
- SADE (2022, July). 10 Insightful Quotes About Submission in BDSM. SADEclasses.org Blog. https://sadeclasses.org/quotes-about-submission
- SADE (2022, July). Supporting a Stressed-Out Partner BDSM Journaling Prompts. SADEclasses.org Blog. https://sadeclasses.org/bdsm-kink-journaling-topics/#stressed
- SADE (2022, Jun). Building a Values-Based Dynamic BDSM Journaling Prompts. SADEclasses.org Blog. https://sadeclasses.org/bdsm-kink-journaling-topics/#values
- SADE (2022, May). Service That Serves Us BDSM Journaling Prompts. SADEclasses.org Blog. https://sadeclasses.org/bdsm-kink-journaling-topics/#serviceservesus
- SADE (2022, May). What Does BDSM Stand For?. SADEclasses.org Blog. https://sadeclasses.org/what-does-bdsm-stand-for
- SADE (2022, May). Sex & Kink Brands We Love. SADEclasses.org Blog. https://sadeclasses.org/sex-kink-brands-we-love
- SADE (2022, May). BDSM Books & Resources. SADEclasses.org Blog. https://sadeclasses.org/bdsm-books-resources
- SADE (2022, May). BDSM & Kinky Podcasts. SADEclasses.org Blog. https://sadeclasses.org/bdsm-kinky-podcasts
- SADE (2022, Apr). FemDom 2.0 BDSM Journaling Prompts. SADEclasses.org Blog. https://sadeclasses.org/bdsm-kink-journaling-topics/#femdom
- SADE (2022, Feb). Polyamory & Power Exchange BDSM Journaling Prompts. SADEclasses.org Blog. https://sadeclasses.org/bdsm-kink-journaling-topics/#polyampe
- SADE (2022, Jan). Talk Like a Top BDSM Journaling Prompts. SADEclasses.org Blog. https://sadeclasses.org/bdsm-kink-journaling-topics/#talklikeatop
- Lilithfoxx (2021, Jun) An Ode to the Olde. NLA First Link Magazine. http://www.thelinkmagazine.org/blog/index.php?an-ode-to-the-old
- Lilithfoxx (2021, Oct) Pretty Little Thing: The Objectification and Dehumanization of Drag Performers. NLA First Link Magazine. http://www.thelinkmagazine.org/blog/index.php?pretty-little-thing
