
BDSM Fear Play: A Guide to Consensual Fear, Risk, and Intensity
Fear is usually something we try to avoid. It signals uncertainty, vulnerability, danger, or the possibility that something is outside

Fear is usually something we try to avoid. It signals uncertainty, vulnerability, danger, or the possibility that something is outside

Figuring out how to tell your partner you’re kinky can feel surprisingly vulnerable. You may be excited by the possibility

Aftercare can look remarkably different from one BDSM experience to another. After an intense scene, one person may want a

The internet has made BDSM education easier to access than ever before. You can watch a rope demonstration, read about

Originally published August 29, 2024, updated September 3, 2026 Dominance in BDSM is often reduced to a familiar image: the

Polyamory can create space for multiple meaningful relationships, but having permission to love or date more than one person does

I was featured by Sensuali in an article titled Introducing Polyamorous Kink & Intimacy Coach, Lilith Foxx, and the feature

BDSM has become far more visible in mainstream culture, but greater visibility has not necessarily produced greater understanding. Movies, pornography,

Most people receive surprisingly little useful education about sexuality. We may learn the mechanics of reproduction, hear warnings about pregnancy