Originally published June 15, 2024, updated September 3, 2026 Dominance can involve authority, responsibility, creativity, eroticism, leadership, service, care, control, or some combination of all of these. What being a Dominant means in practice can also vary enormously. One person may primarily enjoy taking control during individual scenes, while another may incorporate negotiated authority into an ongoing D/s relationship. Neither approach is inherently more authentic…
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100 Journal Prompts for Submissives: A Guide to BDSM Self-Reflection
Originally published April 15, 2024, updated September 2, 2026 Submission can mean very different things depending on the person. For some people, it is something they enjoy during a scene. For others, submission is closely connected to identity, relationships, service, eroticism, trust, or a broader power exchange dynamic. There is no single definition of what a submissive should want, how a submissive should behave, or…