A D/s relationship is one of the most talked about dynamics within BDSM, but it is also one of the most misunderstood. In many portrayals of kink, dominance and submission are reduced to stereotypes about…
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When One Partner Is Kinkier Than the Other: Navigating Desire Gaps
Desire mismatches are one of the most common and least talked about challenges in relationships. When one partner is kinkier than the other, it can stir up insecurity, guilt, frustration, or fear of rejection on…
Opening Up About Kink: How to Tell Your Partner You’re Kinky
Figuring out how to tell your partner you’re kinky can feel surprisingly vulnerable. You may be excited by the possibility of sharing a part of yourself that has remained private, while simultaneously worrying that your…
Polyamory and Kink Coach: Navigating the Intersection of Power, Relationships, and Desire
I was featured by Sensuali in an article titled Introducing Polyamorous Kink & Intimacy Coach, Lilith Foxx, and the feature gave me an opportunity to think more deeply about an intersection that comes up constantly…
17 BDSM Myths and Misconceptions You Should Stop Believing
BDSM has become far more visible in mainstream culture, but greater visibility has not necessarily produced greater understanding. Movies, pornography, social media, sensational news coverage, and decades of cultural stigma have helped create BDSM myths…
The Ultimate Guide to Introducing BDSM Into Your Relationship
Maybe you have been thinking about bondage for months. Maybe your partner jokingly mentioned being tied up and you have not been able to stop thinking about it. Maybe you already know you are kinky…