Fear is usually something we try to avoid. It signals uncertainty, vulnerability, danger, or the possibility that something is outside our control. Within BDSM, however, those same sensations can become
Figuring out how to tell your partner you’re kinky can feel surprisingly vulnerable. You may be excited by the possibility of sharing a part of yourself that has remained private,
Aftercare can look remarkably different from one BDSM experience to another. After an intense scene, one person may want a blanket, water, reassurance, and physical closeness. Someone else may want
The internet has made BDSM education easier to access than ever before. You can watch a rope demonstration, read about power exchange, find a discussion about impact play, or hear
Originally published August 29, 2024, updated September 3, 2026 Dominance in BDSM is often reduced to a familiar image: the person giving orders, holding the restraints, delivering the impact, or
Polyamory can create space for multiple meaningful relationships, but having permission to love or date more than one person does not automatically tell you how to navigate everything that comes
I was featured by Sensuali in an article titled Introducing Polyamorous Kink & Intimacy Coach, Lilith Foxx, and the feature gave me an opportunity to think more deeply about an
BDSM has become far more visible in mainstream culture, but greater visibility has not necessarily produced greater understanding. Movies, pornography, social media, sensational news coverage, and decades of cultural stigma
Most people receive surprisingly little useful education about sexuality. We may learn the mechanics of reproduction, hear warnings about pregnancy or sexually transmitted infections, and then be expected to somehow