I was featured by Sensuali in an article titled Introducing Polyamorous Kink & Intimacy Coach, Lilith Foxx, and the feature gave me an opportunity to think more deeply about an intersection that comes up constantly…
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17 BDSM Myths and Misconceptions You Should Stop Believing
BDSM has become far more visible in mainstream culture, but greater visibility has not necessarily produced greater understanding. Movies, pornography, social media, sensational news coverage, and decades of cultural stigma have helped create BDSM myths…
Understanding Sexuality Coaching: Benefits, Misconceptions, and How It Can Help You
Most people receive surprisingly little useful education about sexuality. We may learn the mechanics of reproduction, hear warnings about pregnancy or sexually transmitted infections, and then be expected to somehow figure out desire, pleasure, boundaries,…
Navigating Your First BDSM Experience: A Step-by-Step Educational Guide
Your first BDSM experience can feel like a strange combination of exciting, intimidating, sexy, and slightly overwhelming. You may have spent months thinking about a particular fantasy, recently discovered that something you have always wanted…
100 Journal Prompts for Dominants: A Guide to Deepening Your BDSM Journey
Originally published June 15, 2024, updated September 3, 2026 Dominance can involve authority, responsibility, creativity, eroticism, leadership, service, care, control, or some combination of all of these. What being a Dominant means in practice can…
Exploring New Kinks: A Guide to Broadening Your Sexual Horizons
Curiosity is one of the most enjoyable parts of sexuality. You may discover an activity in a book that immediately grabs your attention, hear someone describe a dynamic you had never considered, realize that a…
Lilithfoxx’s Accessibility-First Approach to Inclusive Sexuality Education
A class is only useful if people can actually access the information being taught. That principle shapes my accessibility-first approach to sexuality education, BDSM classes, professional trainings, and workshops. Rather than waiting until someone requests…
Yes No Maybe List: A Comprehensive Guide to Consent and Boundaries
Talking about sex can be surprisingly difficult, even with someone you trust. You may know that you want to explore more together but struggle to name specific desires. You may have boundaries that feel easy…
What Is Aftercare? Essential Insights Into BDSM Post-Play Recovery
If you are new to BDSM, you may have heard people discussing what happens before and during a scene much more often than what happens afterward. Negotiation, safewords, restraints, impact play, roles, and consent tend…
100 Journal Prompts for Submissives: A Guide to BDSM Self-Reflection
Originally published April 15, 2024, updated September 2, 2026 Submission can mean very different things depending on the person. For some people, it is something they enjoy during a scene. For others, submission is closely…