Coconut oil seems like it should be an easy solution when you need lubricant. It is inexpensive, widely available, slippery, and lasts much longer than many water-based products. That combination has led plenty of people…
Blog
Is Squirt Pee? Unraveling the Science Behind Squirting
If you have ever wondered, “is squirt pee?” you have probably encountered wildly different answers. Pornography often presents squirting as a dramatic sign of orgasm, social media tends to split into camps arguing that it…
Insightful Quotes About Submission in BDSM
Originally published February 1, 2024, updated September 1, 2026 Submission is often misunderstood by people outside BDSM. Popular culture frequently portrays submissives as passive, timid, powerless, or willing to do whatever a Dominant tells them….
Nurturing Emotional Well-being: The Comprehensive Guide to BDSM Aftercare and Self-Exploration
A BDSM scene does not necessarily end when the rope comes off, the impact stops, or everyone leaves their negotiated roles. Intense physical and psychological experiences can affect people well after the active part of…
Sex Positivity in Practice: Tips and Techniques for Bringing Positive Energy into Your Intimacy
Sex positivity is often reduced to the idea that everyone should feel confident, adventurous, and enthusiastic about sex. In reality, it is much broader than that. A genuinely sex-positive approach respects people’s right to experience…
The Ultimate Guide to Introducing BDSM Into Your Relationship
Maybe you have been thinking about bondage for months. Maybe your partner jokingly mentioned being tied up and you have not been able to stop thinking about it. Maybe you already know you are kinky…
BDSM Classes: Your Ultimate Guide to Starting Your BDSM Journey
Curiosity may be what brings you to kink, but education is what helps you explore it with more confidence, skill, and awareness. BDSM classes can give you a structured place to learn about consent, negotiation,…
The Ultimate Guide to Introducing Non-Monogamy Into Your Relationship
Deciding that you want to introduce non-monogamy into an existing relationship can bring up excitement, curiosity, anxiety, and a lot of questions at the same time. You may be wondering how to tell your partner,…
5 Ways to Enhance Communication Skills in Your Relationship
Communication affects almost every part of a relationship, from how you handle conflict to how comfortable you feel talking about sex, money, family, boundaries, and the future. Yet many of us were never actually taught…
Why You Should Consider Working with a Sex and Relationship Coach
There is no shortage of information about sex and relationships. You can find podcasts about desire, books about communication, social media posts about attachment, and endless advice promising to transform your sex life. The harder…